Thursday, 23 January 2014

afternoon tea with my afternoon tea, tea set…..


blog 3 January 
 
 
 
Disney has come to Brevands and our ancient lavery in the centre of the village has been adorned with a period dress mannequin to demonstrate how things were done. Our only concern was that historically this lady of her day is wearing marigolds and I am pretty sure that 100 years ago rubber gloves were not available to the paysenne of Brevands to  protect their precious little hands. Still, good effort, and although our Madame de La Lavery was only on display for the duration of the Christmas decorations I think she is a stake in the ground for us other Brevands Ladies to  fashion ourselves on
 
Our lavery is rare in that it has a fire built into the surrounding wall with it’s own little chimney  to heat  the water for a whiter than  white wash and whilst the Marie has giving us a glimpse of life in past Brevands  and  how the lavery might have been, I think the crocks by the mock fire just about finished this museum piece off nicely and if nothing else it certainly made Mike and I chuckle as we drove past on our way to the Boulanger.
 
 
 
Beryl, the yellow peril is not well and a vibrating steering wheel after a contra temps with a curb when we were in the UK in September,  we thought it was time to have it looked at so up on the ramp she went only to  discover that her near side front wheel is buckled and needs replacing. It was then time to go to the customer services desk to start the,  oh so predictable intake of breath, shruggy shoulders and  friendly banter that you know is going to cost you a Grand at best…..OK it was only a quote for 600 Euro if they can match the wheel and the grand if we need 4 new wheels and tyres, it just sends Mike in a tizzy as he is helpless to  banter back but I keep telling him that even the French don’t duck and dive with each other,  this is the price,  or go somewhere else…..please sir…
 
 
 
 
 
With all the rain and filling up of our water meadows we were excited to see that the Brevands gardener is back on form and has started his chore of digging out ditches in the most straight and perfectly executed manner. The mud trenched out is neatly layered on the side of the ditch and the whole event is a delight to see. Mike and I have often remarked at what sort of person you must be to be happy to dig trenches for miles and miles at the coldest time of the year all alone up to your knees in mud.  A perfectionist and artist in his own right and then you wonder what he does in his spare time…….although he waves as we drive  by not once have we felt qualified or worthy of a stop and chat as he is a league on his own.  I did once collar him at one of our social events and was far too gushy about his fab trenches because that is just what he does for a living and he shrugged me off as an eccentric Anglaise.
 
 
Every day I try to do one big job in the garden. We are 2 years behind so it has to be a methodical and committed approach.  So I put on my best garden coat my gloves and set off with croppers, choppers and lots of energy to get the buddleia back in control and as I go I see plants that need pruning, tuning and plain old pulling out. The worst bit of this operation is the clearing up and at a certain point before the dew  falls or the clouds cover over the blue sky you have to make the decision to load up the cuttings into the trolley and dump them on the rough compost heap. This day I did 5 trips to the end of the garden where we dump our left overs and by the time I had finished I felt like I had put in 5 hours flat out in the gym and  completed all of my 10000 steps for that day…..
And finally a nice little story. In 2000 Mike and I packed up our family home of 17 years and moved into a smart marina house in Port Solent. It was contemporary  and modern and everything that our family home was not so as we packed I asked Mike’s Mum to look after this tea set that was a wedding present as I didn’t think these oldie worldly crocks had a place in my modern and upmarket new life. 14 year later when we were going through a few things when Mum died I found this box and blow me, it turns out that she kept her word and did keep it for me. A few years back our girls were doing a car boot and their nanny had given them a few things to sell and they mentioned an old tea set and I thought she may have forgotten this was mine and let it go, so I let it go, and thought no more about it but now it fits in our home and I am ready to invite a friend to have afternoon tea with my afternoon tea, tea set…..
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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