Friday, 24 October 2014

to be surrounded by lovely people all over again …….

blog 29 / October







I broke the news to Mike that the Poly tunnel needed closing and that meant a huge ‘mend’ job on the doors. We took the doors off in the spring in a tattered and sorry state and thought we had months to think about how to get them back into working order for the winter, and blow me down here we are already. Mike set to, as he does, clonked and bashed away whilst I was picking and prodding at the beds and in a morning’s work got the poly back together. Now all we need to do is re-cover it completely and we have months to go before spring, when that job will need to be done, and before you know it ….!!!!!!!






I know I have been bleating on about the odd unseasonal sequence of growth in the garden this year but a gladioli in flower on the front drive on October 16th is ridiculous……but lovely. My only fear is that this bulb is now spent and will not make it into flower again next year, but I will just have to keep an eye on it and keep you informed.







 
 
It was my turn to celebrate my 60th birthday and I wanted to sit around my table in the kitchen and just be with friends and that is exactly what we did. A very sing song evening not all in great tune but a funny and rowdy night is the only way to start the next phase of one’s life, and I was delighted especially as Mim and Dick had made the trip from the UK to be with us as well
 
Mark came with his violin and after a little home spun concert between us we sang ditties and told jokes and I laughed till I cried. Thank you all my friends for making a difficult birthday, for a lady, seem like a walk in the park……
 
 



And then after a day of rest I was sat in the garden with Shirley and Mark just passing by to say hello when a car rolled onto the drive and I stood up saying oh flip…. who could that be……..I had the surprise of my life to see our boy Chris get out of the driving seat and brother Billy closing the gate behind them. Chris, Sam, Billy and Maxine had started off at 5:00 that morning to take the channel tunnel and drove all the way to my house to take me out to dinner for my birthday. It was not good enough that I had Mim and Dick with us for the week now we were a family gathering and I was touched to the bottom of my heart that everyone around me including Mike had been plotting and organising to give me such a wonder full surprise.

 

 
I was whisked off to Grandcamp Maisy for a fab meal thanks to Billy and then everyone just went to bed, and I  realised just how much Mike had been up to, cleverly getting the spare room ready and warming up the camper so everyone had a warm bed.  Sam did make a comment that Napoleon the cockerel had to die, they were very tired and we all know that Napoleon starts his cockadoodling at 4:30 in the morning, and knowing we had guests made sure he was in full voice for the occasion.
 
 
 
Before I could appreciate the impact of this group of very special people being in our home for my birthday it was all over and the house was quiet and empty and ringing with the sound of happy people doing wonderful things for me. Mike was a brick and made sure there was no way I was going to miss my surprise but  I am now on my guard, as I don’t know what he is capable of in terms of lies and deceit, but  I love him to bits  for making  it happen. I am also amazed that Mim and Dick were able to keep their lips tight shut and not let the cat out of the bag and I am just delighted that this birthday was made extra special despite living on the other side of the channel…….
 
To avoid the sound and feel of an empty house,  I had planned  to get away for a few days in the camper. Every time we have company I go into a melancholy state and I am so glad I anticipated this trip as I was on a double dose with all our friends and family there one moment and gone the next. So we set off for a trip to Chatres to rediscover a bit of art I saw 10 years ago on our long leave trip of Europe
 


When we got to the cathedral I was reminded of the architectural marvel but was more excited about the choir screen that I had seen all those years ago and never really understood what I had I been looking at. I did my research so I more understood when in front of it again, and Mike walked me around the 40 sculpted deep relief panels dating from 1510 to 1720 twice. The rest of the cathedral is in the midst of a very French style restore and I took this pic to show the beautiful ceiling and vaults and the screen section already restored and I now await with bated breath for the screen to be cleaned and restored  like the rest of the building. Mike is a bit of a groupie as he has to follow me anywhere there is a statue as I am a complete nutter for an ancient figure in any medium as long as it is telling an ancient story ………
 
 
 
We took the guide book’s advice and found our way to a street where an artist had been let free to create this trompe d’oeil as they call it. The entire front of this building is painted and the windows were very convincing. We stood in front of it for ages and it seemed to me we were the only ones looking up but I guess it is out of season and the people passing by see it every day
 
 
Mike and I are discovering that driving through France is a hit and miss event. You just don’t know what is around the next corner and as all the regions only deal with what is in their region anything we picked up in Chatres office of tourism would not advertise interesting sites to see next door. As we approached our third way point on the gps on our way to Villiers Bocage we noticed a huge wall that seemed to go on for many kilometres and we became more and more curious about what might be behind such a wall, as  it went  the village of La Fert Vidame and out the other side until suddenly the road opened up and to our left was the ruin of a palace. The gardens were still outlined, the water features in place. We drove past but we knew we had to go back and parked up to take a look and this palace that had been derelict since the French revolution. In the 1920’s Mr Citroen bought the estate and built his development track in the grounds……well we were so very excited about this find that when we got home we goggled the village and found that this pocket of amazement is a public park open all year and just around the corner is a camp site that is closed now until May, but guess where we will be going as soon as the season starts…….can’t wait.

So I had a wonderful birthday and I will put this week in the blog file as a truly memorable time and to add this to the rest of the year with Mikes birthday party in May and our family gathering in July here in Brevands,  I can now gather up an armful of happy memories to keep for every.
It is not all over though, we will close this 60 years with a new year party and the chance to be surrounded by lovely people all over again …….
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 

 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 






















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